One thing i’ve learned over the years is that sometimes putting your all into relationships can be scary, especially when you’ve been hurt before.
In elementary school, everyday there was drama about whose friends with whom, or who kissed who on the playground at recess. That was just the start of these weird things we’re faced with.
In high school you get hurt when you find out your best friend has started dating a guy you liked or you find out that someone has been talking behind your back. You also probably aren’t friends with the same people you went into high school with so yes it’s easy to get caught up in the pain of relationships. Whether that be friendship, romantic or family related.
You can get hurt when friends moved away, or your boyfriend cheats on you, or maybe a close family member passes.
To me it’s always been pretty simple.
Why worry about getting hurt? OF COURSE it’s going to happen once in a while, everyone experiences heartbreak, you have to learn to embrace it. Put everything you have into the people you love. Be the one that remembers birthdays, or gives sappy ass cards, or just reminding everyone that you appreciate them.
Plan into the future without worrying that maybe you might not still be together, or you might not be friends them.
If you have someone amazing in your life, take advantage of it while you have them. Relationships are everything.
People may come and go, but leaving a good impression on them about how much you cared is the most important thing. You will always be someone they can look back on and think of how kind and loving you were.
Don’t be the person that doesn’t reply to texts, or forgets important dates, or someone who causes drama when drama doesn’t need to be made.
Now i’m not saying every person you try to have a relationship with is going to be worth it. People sometimes leave and thats the circle of life, but you will for sure find people that want to stay. Those are the important ones.
Love them immensely.
One of my favourite quotes that fits this topic is one I shared in my post from last week.
I hope in someway you could get something out of this short post. This is something I keep in mind everyday.
Who is someone that is very important in your life and why?
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