• Why you should put your all into relationships.

     

    Why you should put your all into relationships, elegant chances, life advice, life quotes, teen blog

    One thing i’ve learned over the years is that sometimes putting your all into relationships can be scary, especially when you’ve been hurt before.

    In elementary school, everyday there was drama about whose friends with whom, or who kissed who on the playground at recess. That was just the start of these weird things we’re faced with.

    In high school you get hurt when you find out your best friend has started dating a guy you liked or you find out that someone has been talking behind your back. You also probably aren’t friends with the same people you went into high school with so yes it’s easy to get caught up in the pain of relationships. Whether that be friendship, romantic or family related.

    You can get hurt when friends moved away, or your boyfriend cheats on you, or maybe a close family member passes.

    To me it’s always been pretty simple.

    Why you should put your all into relationships, elegant chances, life quotes

    Why worry about getting hurt? OF COURSE it’s going to happen once in a while, everyone experiences heartbreak, you have to learn to embrace it. Put everything you have into the people you love. Be the one that remembers birthdays, or gives sappy ass cards, or just reminding everyone that you appreciate them.

    Plan into the future without worrying that maybe you might not still be together, or you might not be friends them.

    If you have someone amazing in your life, take advantage of it while you have them. Relationships are everything.

    People may come and go, but leaving a good impression on them about how much you cared is the most important thing. You will always be someone they can look back on and think of how kind and loving you were.

    Don’t be the person that doesn’t reply to texts, or forgets important dates, or someone who causes drama when drama doesn’t need to be made.

    Now i’m not saying every person you try to have a relationship with is going to be worth it. People sometimes leave and thats the circle of life, but you will for sure find people that want to stay. Those are the important ones.

    Love them immensely.

    One of my favourite quotes that fits this topic is one I shared in my post from last week.

    Quote to live by, Why you should always put your all into relationships

    I hope in someway you could get something out of this short post. This is something I keep in mind everyday.

    QUESTION!

    Who is someone that is very important in your life and why?

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    10 Quotes To Live By!

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  • 10 Quotes To Live By!

     

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

    Hello World!

    So I was scrolling through Pinterest (as I always do haha I have no life) and got stuck on some quotes that I REALLY loved. Every one of them hit hard in me and I thought I’d share them with you all! Some of these are lessons I think that everyone should keep in mind while going throughout their day to day life. So get ready to feel the slightly sappy motivational vibes while you read,

    10 Quotes that you should live by!

    ALSOOOO If you didn’t see my last quote post (10 Love Quotes That Will Make You Go Awww!) Feel free to check it out here!

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

    10 quotes to live by

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

    10 Quotes to live by - Elegant Chances. Life quotes.

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  • Long Distance Relationship | Valentines Day!

    Long distance relationship Valentines day

    Hello World!

    As you know today is Valentines day, and unfortunately I can’t spend it with the one I love the most.
    We are in a long distance relationship between Canada and Germany!

    I’ve had these cute little videos sitting in my phone since January and decided for valentines day i’d put them together…

    Feel free to take a peak 😉 Click Below!

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  • The Importance Of Doing Nothing.

    The importance of doing nothing! - Elegant Chances. Why you should sometimes close your mind and doing nothing.

    Over the past few months i’ve really learned that doing nothing is one of the best things you can do.

    At this point i’m sure you’re like YES LAURYN… WE KNOW YOU’RE LAZY!!

    Though just for a minute i’d like you to really think about it.  The idea of doing nothing isn’t about sitting in a chair staring at a wall, it’s more the idea of not doing anything useful. Like watching netflix 24/7, sleeping, or hibernating in your room colouring in those ridiculous adult colouring books that honestly make me more stressed then calm haha.

    Back in December I found myself just feeling completely dead to the world. So what I did was sit in my room, be stupid and take maybe 100 steps in a day (literally when I checked my step counting app… it was kind of ridiculous). Course there is always a point where doing nothing for such long period of time where it gets ridiculous.

    Though in that time I quickly learned a few things!

    Doing nothing for long periods of time can boost creativity.

    There was a week where I knew I did nothing productive in the slightest and by the end of the week I was so restless to do something creative or productive I pulled out my sketch book for the first time in months. Oh it felt so good. I guess it’s like most things in life, you really have to hit rock bottom for anything to click. My rock bottom was running out of netflix shows hahaha.

    I began to play more guitar, started wanting to write poetry again, looking for ways to improve my blog. It really surprised me that some of the things I put on a back burner for half a year came back so naturally after the feeling of extreme boredom.

    You have so much time to think.

    Literally when you are all alone and putting off the important things, it really makes you think. For me I made loads and loads of lists in the past months. Things that were on my mind, or things I knew I needed to eventually figure out in my life were scattered all over the pages of my journal and notebooks. During that time I made a game plan of how I wanted the next year to go, and even some goals that I want to achieve in the next 5 years. I think that this was something that really pushed me to try my hardest to get out of the slump of nothing.

    You’re brain needs downtime too.

    It’s not just your body that can get exhausted. Doing too much at once can really mess with your mind. I always found in high school that knowing I had to hand in culminating activities one after the other was really too much for me. Especially when I wouldn’t take breaks. My brain needed the time to recharge and loose focus. I remember by the last assignment of the year, I really bullshitted it all in an attempt to just get it over with and out the way. If I took a day to loose focus and recharge I could have probably done much better on that assignment. After school I found myself worrying way too much about what i’m going to do with my life, or course I still do now but not to the extent. I found that taking a break and really just loosing myself was how I found out what course I wanted to take in college. Funny thing is I was watching youtube and came across a girl my age who was just talking and mentioned how she was going to school to get into PR. After looking into it and finding out what you could do with a communications degree, it hit all the points that I was so confused about.

    I strongly believe life brings what you need at just the right time.

    For me what I needed was that break!

    QUESTION TIME!

    What do you do to unwind or relax? Leave me a comment down below!

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